For Women…
Sister— I see you.
I see what our culture is doing to you, and what it has done to all of us.
I see how your heart has carried so much, yet despite it all, still longs for love.
I see the woman who gives so much and still longs to be met, cherished, held.
I see you trying to do it all.
I see the woman who has held it all together.
For herself, for her man, for her family, for her children, for all of us.
The one who’s done the work.
Gone to therapy.
Read every relationship book.
Led the healing in her family, in her partnerships, in her lineage.
I see the woman who is both powerful and tired.
Fierce and quietly aching.
Successful but secretly wondering:
Where is he?
Why can’t I find him; or feel him—even if he’s lying here right next to me?
Why don’t men show up in my life the way I wish they would?
Why do I feel like I’m carrying it all alone?
Women today have been told that she is either too much,
or not enough,
time and time again.
I see the confusion our Culture is sowing in Her:
Should I “boss-babe” and make my own money, prioritize independence
and strengthen my “masculine” without needing a man?
Or should I pursue relationship, get married, or start a family?
Am I even allowed to want to be taken care of?
Or am I betraying my feminism forebears if I do?
Am I allowed to do BOTH?
Is it even possible if I wanted it?
On top of it all, you’ve probably been told all your life that men are dangerous, harmful, toxic — that they all only want one thing…
Our culture has been telling all of us that for decades.
And, like most women, you’ve probably been hurt by men at some point–
men who were never taught how to be good men.
In response, you’ve become everything you needed him to be:
Resilient.
Resourceful.
Responsible.
But at what cost?
No one ever taught us how to truly meet each other.
No one taught men how to hold the feminine without fear or control.
No one taught women how to honor and trust the masculine—because too often, the masculine wasn’t trustworthy.
No one taught us anything about each other.
So we have blamed and demonized each other…
Fought each other.
Made each other wrong.
Stopped listening.
Forgot the language and ways of men and women—
the very same ones we desire to build our future beside.
What now? What next?
I work with women who are truly interested in understanding Men,
the “masculine”, and their relationship to Him — by learning how to honor him while
Women who are interested in focusing on the positive aspects in men, because what you focus on grows, and you attract what you
Because the war between men and women is killing us.
Because I believe, with my whole being, that we all want to find our way
back to each other.
In this work, I help women understand:
Why men do what they do (and don’t do what they don’t)
How to communicate in the language He understands and responds to
How to rebalance your “masculine/feminine” energies beyond your conditioning.
The road to healing your Father wound + your wounds with Men.
The road to healing your Sister wounds with other women, and with your Mother.
How to resuscitate the parts of you that hardened and closed out of protection.
How to attract, inspire, and sustain life-long romantic partnership.
How to receive impactful presence from men.
How to recognize when your truth is leading vs. when your wounds are.
How to live as love and heal as radiance.
How to create a life of balanced beauty, supported + surrounded by healthy men.
You don’t need to shrink.
You don’t need to perform.
“You don’t need to dance for your dinner.”
No one here is broken.
We have simply forgotten how to meet each other clean.
You do deserve to be met.
To be cherished.
To be protected.
To be safe.
To be able to rest.
Every woman does.
There are things you are doing that are getting in the way of this.
Things you were taught.
Things you inherited.
Things you learned to survive life in a masculinized world.
This work unfolds not in service of outdated gender roles—
but in service of wholeness.
YOURS.
While there are similarities between all women,
this is not cookie-cutter work.
You have your own unique path.
My job is to help guide your own journey.
This work unfolds not to get men to behave,
but to remind them remember what’s possible when we remember the secrets of polarity.
other and discover how to come back into sacred polarity together.
This isn’t about blame.
It’s about reunion.
If you’re ready to soften into your real strength without losing your way in the world…
If you’re ready to live as love again, but from a place of soft power and sweet wisdom…
If you’re ready to heal your relationship to the masculine and with men on every level—
Come.
Let’s walk this path together.
MIKAAL BATES
Coach | Men’s Work Facilitator | Polarity Guide | Keynote Speaker
Mikaal Bates is a leading voice in men’s work, relational healing, and cultural repair. He offers grounded, heart-centered mentorship for men, women, and couples who are ready to shed performance and embody their deepest truth. Known for his poetic fire and raw honesty, Mikaal creates sacred containers for transformation through 1:1 coaching, group work, private retreats, and stage speaking.
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