For the Women
Sister— I see you.
The way your heart has carried so much, yet still looks for love.
I see the woman who gives so much and still longs to be met.
I see you trying to do it all.
I see the woman who has held it all together.
The one who’s done the work.
Gone to therapy.
Read every relationship book.
Led the healing in her family, in her partnerships, in her lineage.
I see the woman who is both powerful and tired.
Fierce and quietly aching.
Successful but secretly wondering:
Where is he?
Why can’t I find him; or feel him?
Why am I carrying it all alone?
I see the woman who has been told she is either too much,
or not enough, time and time again.
I see the confusion our culture is sowing:
Should I do the “boss-babe” thing and make my own money, prioritize independence
and strengthen my “masculine” without needing a man?
Or should I pursue relationship, get married, or start a family?
Am I allowed to want to be taken care of–or am I betraying Feminism if I do?
Am I allowed to do both? Is it even possible if I wanted it?
Not only that, but you’ve probably been told that the masculine is dangerous–
Our culture has been telling everyone that for decades.
Like most women, you’ve probably been hurt by men at some point–
hurt by men who were never taught how to be good men.
And in response, you’ve become everything you needed him to be:
Resilient.
Resourceful.
Responsible.
But at what cost?
No one ever taught us how to truly meet each other.
No one taught men how to hold the feminine without fear or control.
And no one taught women how to trust the masculine—because too often, the masculine wasn’t trustworthy.
No one taught us anything about each other.
So we blamed each other.
Fought each other.
Made each other wrong.
Stopped listening.
Forgot the language of men and women.
I work with women who are truly interested in understanding Men, the “masculine” and their relationship to Him.
Because the war between men and women is killing us.
Because I believe, with my whole being, that we all want to find our way back to each other.
In this work, I help women understand:
Why men do what they do (and why they don’t)
How to communicate in the language He understands and responds to
How to foster a healthy balance between your own “masculine” and “feminine”
How to heal your Father wound/wounds with the Masculine
How to heal your Sister wounds with other women, and with your Mother
How to resuscitate the parts of you that hardened and closed out of necessity
How to attract, inspire, and sustain real, grounded, impactful presence from men
How to recognize when your body is leading vs. when your wounds are
How to live as love and heal as radiance.
How to create a life of balance and beauty, supported by healthy men
You don’t need to shrink.
You don’t need to perform.
Because no one here is broken.
We’ve simply forgotten each other.
But you do deserve to be met.
To be cherished.
To be protected.
To be safe.
To be able to rest.
Every woman does.
And there are probably things you yourself are doing that are getting in the way of this.
Things you were taught.
Things you inherited.
Things you learned to survive living in a masculine world.
This work unfolds not in service of outdated gender roles—but in service of wholeness.
This work unfolds not to get men to behave, but to remember what’s possible when men and women remember each other and discover how to come back into sacred polarity together.
This isn’t about blame.
It’s about reunion.
If you’re ready to soften into your real strength without losing your way in the world…
If you’re ready to live as love again, but from a place of soft power and sweet wisdom…
If you’re ready to heal your relationship to the masculine and with men on every level—
Come.
Let’s walk this path together.
MIKAAL BATES
Coach | Men’s Work Facilitator | Polarity Guide | Keynote Speaker
Mikaal Bates is a leading voice in men’s work, relational healing, and cultural repair. He offers grounded, heart-centered mentorship for men, women, and couples who are ready to shed performance and embody their deepest truth. Known for his poetic fire and raw honesty, Mikaal creates sacred containers for transformation through 1:1 coaching, group work, private retreats, and stage speaking.
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